Why Retention Isn’t a People Problem—It’s a Prediction Problem
By Dr. Sharon Grossman
When CEOs tell me they won’t invest in retention because “people are just going to leave anyway,” they’re not entirely wrong. Most leadership training focuses on individuals who might take those skills to their next job. But that’s not the investment I’m talking about.
I’m talking about building systems that make people want to stay.
Your Brain Is Running a Betting Operation
Most organizations treat turnover like a motivation problem. Better managers, stronger culture, more pizza parties. But neuroscience research reveals something different: your employees aren’t responding to what’s happening. They’re responding to what they expect will happen.
Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett’s work on predictive processing shows our brains don’t react to reality—they predict it based on past experiences. [10] Every interaction at work becomes a data point. Enough negative predictions (unproductive meetings, absent feedback, rewarded burnout), and the brain calculates: “Time to leave.”
Your organization is teaching people what to expect. The question is whether you’re teaching them to stay or go.
The Invisible Curriculum of Turnover
Research backs this up. Gallup found that 52% of exiting employees say their manager or organization could have prevented their departure. [5] Not through grand gestures, but through consistent, predictable experiences that signal: you matter here.
When SHRM examined workplace culture, they found employees in good or excellent cultures are nearly four times more likely to stay. [1] The difference isn’t perks. It’s whether daily experiences align with organizational promises.
Barrett’s research explains why: meaning isn’t created through what you say or think. Meaning is what you do. [10] Culture gets encoded through repeated action, not mission statements. Each one-on-one, each team meeting, each performance review becomes neural evidence about whether this place is worth the metabolic cost of staying.
The stakes are higher than most realize. Ernst & Young found 92% of employees across all generations say culture influences whether they stay or go. [2] Yet Accenture research shows only 1 in 6 employees feel strongly connected at work. [3] That gap—between what matters to people and what they’re actually experiencing—is where your talent walks out the door.
The Neuroscience of Staying
Here’s what makes this framework different: the brain’s primary function is managing your body’s energy budget. It’s constantly asking “Is this environment worth the resources I’m spending here?” Unpredictable, emotionally chaotic workplaces are metabolically expensive. When the brain predicts chronic stress, invisible contributions, or arbitrary decision-making, it triggers a survival response: find somewhere safer.
This isn’t about feelings. It’s about biology.
Research on healthcare organizations demonstrates this clearly. When supportive leadership culture becomes systematized rather than personality-dependent, job satisfaction shows a significant correlation (β = 0.66) with retention. [4] The connection isn’t that better leaders magically inspire people to stay. It’s that predictable, positive experiences teach the brain this environment is safe enough to invest in.
Meanwhile, organizations with toxic or indifferent cultures—where leadership says “people are our greatest asset” while treating them like interchangeable parts—see directly correlated turnover rates. [7] The brain doesn’t listen to what you say. It tracks what you do. And it votes with someone’s LinkedIn profile.
Design the System, Not the Hero
Stop gambling on individual managers to create pockets of excellence. Build organizational systems that generate predictable positive experiences.
Audit your prediction generators
Pick one system—onboarding, check-ins, recognition. Ask: what does this teach people to expect? Organizations with structured onboarding see 82% higher retention and 70% greater productivity. That’s not a coincidence. That’s predictability building trust.
Look at your exit interview data. What patterns emerge? If people consistently mention unclear expectations, absent feedback, or feeling invisible, your systems are training them to leave. Each negative experience becomes proof that their prediction—”this won’t get better”—is accurate.
Create reliable safety signals
Barrett’s work shows brains optimize for energy conservation. [10] Your people will leave chaotic environments to protect their resources. Build small, consistent rituals—peer recognition, recovery protocols after high-stress periods, structured feedback loops—that teach the brain this environment is safe.
Research confirms that cultures emphasizing well-being, transparency, and growth generate higher long-term commitment. [6] But these can’t be poster values. They must be lived through daily systems that prove—repeatedly—the organization means what it says.
Consider recognition systems. Not annual awards ceremonies, but weekly mechanisms that make contribution visible. When someone’s brain predicts “my work matters here” and that prediction is validated consistently, you’re building retention at the neurological level.
Make desired behaviors the default
Want empathy? Design systems that make empathy structurally inevitable: feedback templates, peer coaching, visible leader check-ins. Don’t hope for cultural change. Engineer it through systems that shape how work happens.
The data supports this approach. Companies that measure connection—not just engagement—and build systems around it see employees 2.9 times more likely to be highly engaged. [9] When you track belonging, alignment with values, and recognition frequency, you’re monitoring your organization’s early warning system.
Culture isn’t static. It’s either getting better or getting worse. And it changes through the accumulation of micro-experiences that either reinforce or contradict what people expect.
The Real ROI
Disengaged employees are 2.6 times more likely to leave for a better culture. [5] Not more money. Not better benefits. A better culture. Because once the brain learns to predict safety, meaning, and connection elsewhere, it becomes nearly impossible to retain that person with compensation alone.
The irony is devastating: in our quest for efficiency, we’ve sometimes engineered out the very thing that makes people want to stay. We’ve optimized for processes while accidentally teaching brains that people are expendable.
But here’s the opportunity: in the age of AI and automation, your actual competitive advantage is profoundly human. The capacity to create belonging, to make contributions visible, to build environments where brains predict safety and meaning. That advantage translates directly into retention, performance, and sustainable organizational health.
Your next leadership meeting shouldn’t ask “How do we motivate people?” It should ask: “What are our systems teaching brains to predict?”
Because retention isn’t about inspiration. It’s about engineering environments where the brain’s best prediction is to stay. When predictions match reality, when safety signals prove reliable, the brain stops searching for exits.
The question for your organization isn’t whether people will leave. It’s whether your systems are teaching them to.

Dr. Sharon Grossman
Dr. Sharon Grossman is a psychologist, keynote speaker, and author of The Daily Deposit. As founder of Turnkey Retention Solutions, she works with HR leaders and executive teams to design culture-based retention systems that transform employee engagement, workplace safety, and organizational performance. Her approach replaces individual-dependent leadership with scalable systems that create predictable human connection. Connect with Dr. Grossman at [email protected].
Citations:
[1] SHRM. (2022). Employee Job Satisfaction and Engagement Report.
[2] Ernst & Young. (2021). Global Generations Research.
[3] Accenture. (2020). The Future of Work Study.
[4] Healthcare Leadership Research. (2019). Impact of supportive leadership culture on nursing retention.
[5] Gallup. (2022). State of the Global Workplace Report.
[6] Deloitte. (2021). Global Human Capital Trends.
[7] MIT Sloan Management Review. (2022). Toxic Culture and Employee Turnover.
[8] The Joint Commission. (2020). Leadership’s role in healthcare quality and safety.
[9] Culture Amp. (2022). Employee Engagement Benchmark Report.
[10] Barrett, L.F. (2017). How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt.